MOM DAD NOT HEAR BY MICKEY CAROLAN (Book Review #1815)

“MOM DAD NOT HEAR” by Mickey Carolan is an insightful and heartwarming memoir that transcends the conventional to deliver powerful leadership lessons from the perspective of a Child of Deaf Adults (CODA). Growing up in Saginaw, Michigan, during the 1980s, Carolan was thrust into the role of a bridge between the Deaf and hearing worlds from a young age. This unique vantage point allowed him to cultivate a deep understanding of effective communication, empathy, and leadership—skills that he masterfully imparts through thirty enriching lessons in this book.

Carolan’s narrative is a testament to the complexity and beauty of the human experience, particularly within the Deaf community. His role as an interpreter for his parents in various scenarios—ranging from family appointments to negotiating misunderstandings—served as the foundation for his insightful observations on life, love, and leadership. These experiences, while challenging, equipped Carolan with a unique set of tools for navigating the world, tools that he generously shares with his readers.

The structure of the book is both practical and engaging, dividing the lessons into thematic sections that allow readers to easily digest and apply Carolan’s wisdom to their own lives. His advice is universal, touching on subjects like financial management, the importance of self-belief, dealing with criticism, and the value of advocacy. Each lesson is anchored in Carolan’s personal anecdotes, which are fascinating and often laced with humor, showcasing his ability to find light in the face of adversity.

One of the most compelling aspects of “MOM DAD NOT HEAR” is Carolan’s unwavering positivity and belief in good communication’s potential to transform relationships and personal outcomes. His stories, such as the humorous yet poignant encounter with a waitress who presented his Deaf parents with a braille menu, are powerful reminders of the misunderstandings that can arise from a lack of awareness. Yet, Carolan consistently emphasizes the growth and positive change that can emerge from these moments.

This memoir is not just for those within the Deaf community or their immediate circles; it is a universal call to action. Carolan’s leadership lessons encourage readers to embrace their potential to effect positive change in their own lives and in the lives of others. His assertion that anyone can be a superhero to someone else is a powerful reminder of the impact we can all have through acts of kindness, understanding, and leadership.

In conclusion, “MOM DAD NOT HEAR” is a profoundly moving and insightful read that offers more than just a glimpse into the life of a CODA. It is a guide to living a more connected, empathetic, and effective life. Mickey Carolan’s ability to distill his unique experiences into actionable lessons for all readers makes this book a valuable resource for anyone looking to improve their communication skills, understand the Deaf community better, or simply be inspired by a story of resilience and leadership.

Written by Jeyran Main

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