Still No Kids & Still OK by Ellen Metter (Book Review #1923)

Ellen Metter’s *Still No Kids & Still OK* offers a refreshingly humorous and candid look at the intentionally child-free life. Now nearly old enough to receive “Save the Date” invites from the Grim Reaper, Metter uses her seasoned perspective to explore the joys and quirks of a life without children while also appreciating the efforts of those who tackle the challenges of parenting with love, patience, and minimal meltdowns.

Metter’s book is a delightful collection of witty observations, illustrated anecdotes, and dashes of memoirs that celebrate the freedom of being child-free. At the same time, it does not undermine the value of parenthood. Her humour is inclusive, making it clear that while she enjoys her child-friendly lifestyle, she also values and respects those who choose to have children. This balanced approach allows the book to resonate with a wide audience.

Metter addresses common questions and concerns posed to those who are childfree with wit and wisdom. Questions like “Who will support you when you’re old?” and “Won’t you be lonely?” are met with clever retorts and thoughtful reflections, offering reassurance and laughter. She tackles stereotypes and societal expectations with a blend of sarcasm and sincerity that is both refreshing and comforting. Metter even humorously contemplates the worry of wearing questionable sweaters without a teenager to critique your fashion choices.

The author emphasizes that there is less pressure these days to have children, yet acknowledges the indecision and subtle societal nagging that prospective parents often face. Metter humorously dispels the myth that a child-free life leads to loneliness, quipping that without kids, you might end up with Netflix and a grizzled old guy with no teeth as your friends—but then again, that doesn’t sound so bad either.

One of the standout qualities of *Still No Kids & Still OK* is Metter’s ability to laugh at herself while pointing out the absurdities in societal norms. Her comparison of parenting to flying a Boeing jumbo jet with squirrels in your hair is a perfect example of her ability to use humour to make a point. She emphasizes that the desire for children should be as strong as Superman to tackle the monumental task of parenting effectively.

For those who hesitate to procreate, Metter shares her own relatable experiences, such as preferring Barbie dolls as a child because they seemed old enough to date—with protection, of course. This personal touch adds depth and authenticity to her humour.

While the book doesn’t follow a traditional narrative structure, its format as a humour/comedy book allows for a series of standalone anecdotes and reflections. This makes it an easy and enjoyable read, perfect for picking up whenever you need a quick laugh or some light-hearted reassurance.

In conclusion, *Still No Kids & Still OK* by Ellen Metter is a must-read for anyone deciding to have children or simply looking for a good laugh. Metter’s humour and insights provide a delightful escape, celebrating the free life while also acknowledging the joys and challenges of parenting. This book is a testament to the idea that it’s okay to be different and that life, with or without children, can be fulfilling and full of laughter.

Written by Jeyran Main

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